A dramatic wedding saga has unfolded online, with a Reddit user detailing how a bride lost a staggering seven out of eight bridesmaids in the lead-up to her big day. The original post sparked widespread curiosity, and now the former bridesmaid is sharing the full story, revealing the series of events and demands that led to the mass exodus.

According to the Redditor, who posted under a pseudonym, the issues began early in the wedding planning process. The bride, described as “entitled” by multiple bridesmaids, started making increasingly unreasonable requests. These weren't just minor inconveniences; they were significant financial and time commitments that the bridesmaids felt were unfair and overwhelming.

The Demands That Drove Bridesmaids Away

The initial complaints revolved around the bride’s insistence on specific, and expensive, dresses. “She wanted designer dresses that cost upwards of $500 each, plus alterations,” the Redditor explained. “When some of us pointed out that it was a lot of money, she got very upset and accused us of not being supportive.”

The financial burden didn't stop there. The bride also expected the bridesmaids to cover their own travel and accommodation costs to the wedding, which was being held in a different state. This proved to be a breaking point for several bridesmaids, particularly those on tighter budgets. “She basically said if we couldn’t afford it, we shouldn’t be involved,” the Redditor stated.

Beyond the financial strain, the bride’s control extended to the bridesmaids’ appearances and behaviour. She dictated strict rules regarding hair, makeup, and even what they could wear to pre-wedding events. One bridesmaid recalled being told she couldn’t wear a specific colour because it “clashed” with the wedding theme, despite it being a colour she felt comfortable in.

The Final Straw

The final straw, according to the Redditor, came when the bride demanded that the bridesmaids pay for a professional hair and makeup artist for every pre-wedding event, including the rehearsal dinner. This was seen as the ultimate display of entitlement and pushed the remaining bridesmaids over the edge.

“It just felt like she was using us,” said one of the departing bridesmaids in a message shared by the Redditor. “We wanted to be there for her, but it wasn’t a support system; it was a financial burden and a constant stream of demands.”

The Bride's Response

When the bridesmaids began dropping out, the bride reportedly reacted with anger and accusations. She accused them of being unsupportive and of trying to sabotage her wedding. However, the Redditor maintains that the bridesmaids’ decision was driven by a desire to protect their own finances and well-being.

The story has resonated with many online, sparking debates about wedding etiquette and the expectations placed on bridal parties. While the bride may have lost seven of her bridesmaids, the story serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of communication, respect, and understanding in wedding planning.

The Redditor concluded by saying, “It’s a shame it ended this way, but ultimately, we all had to prioritize our own financial stability and mental health. A wedding shouldn't bankrupt your friends.”